Vulnerability Coach

MY STORY

I struggled with toxic shame for most of my life.

Talking about the experiences that caused me toxic shame has helped me to no longer suffer like I did before.

Now that I’ve leaned into my vulnerability, my relationships are deeper and more meaningful, and I’ve discovered my power to help others who struggle with shame and limiting beliefs.

I’ve learned that while I was extremely worried before about the possible judgements of the world, most of my concerns were made up in my head.

I’ve learned that most people appreciate authenticity and genuineness.

And I’ve learned how freeing and healing it is to be able to accept myself as I am, all mistakes and imperfections included, and to find the courage to seek forgiveness when appropriate.

I know how daunting it is to take that first step.

I can help you. It starts by having one real conversation with someone who listens compassionately and won’t judge you.

Gary Christensen

“Cody Bentley is the best coach I have ever had! He truly listens and pays attention to his clients when they are talking.  He will ask questions if he needs more detail in order to do his job.  His kindness and compassion for wanting to help others is amazing and I wish there were more coaches like Cody out there. 

Cody was also willing to work with my schedule and make sure we had enough time in our sessions to really address what I needed help with.  Cody did not dictate what he thought I should be working on, he let me decide that.  He did offer thoughtful suggestions but I was steering the sessions and he was there to give me guidance and resources to help me on my path of being the best version of myself!! 

Thank you Cody for all you do, for who you are, and the great work you are doing to help so many people.  You improved my life tremendously!!!”

-Gary Christensen 

Brandon Miller

“I can’t recommend Cody highly enough. His guidance and support have been absolute game-changers for me. From our very first session, it was evident that Cody is not just a coach, but a true partner in your journey toward success. His deep understanding of the challenges I faced and his ability to offer practical, tailored strategies have made a significant impact on my personal and professional growth.

Cody’s approach is both compassionate and results-driven. He has a remarkable talent for identifying strengths and areas for improvement, and his motivational techniques are incredibly effective. What truly sets Cody apart is his genuine care and commitment to my success. He takes the time to listen, provide constructive feedback, and celebrate milestones, no matter how small.

Thanks to Cody’s dedication and expertise, I’ve achieved goals I once thought were beyond my reach and gained a newfound confidence in my abilities. Working with him has been one of the best investments I’ve made in myself. If you’re looking for a coach who will invest wholeheartedly in your development and help you unlock your full potential, Cody is the person to work with.”

-Brandon Miller

Elsa Miller

“One of the most remarkable aspects of working with Cody is how understood and validated I felt. He never criticized me, instead celebrating every success, no matter how small. This approach has helped me to be kinder to myself and to appreciate my progress.

I am immensely grateful for Cody’s guidance. He has helped me see the importance of self-compassion and the value of small victories. If you’re looking for a life coach who truly understands and supports you, I wholeheartedly recommend Cody.”

-Elsa Miller

George Binoka

“I recently completed six coaching sessions with Cody Bentley, and I can confidently say that these sessions have transformed my life. Cody has taught me incredibly powerful ways of thinking that have made a profound impact on every aspect of my life.

Through his guidance, I learned to identify the lies I had been believing and replace them with truths. Cody showed me that how you think directly influences how you see and feel about any situation. He equipped me with the tools to spot the thoughts that lead me down dark roads and replace them with truths that allow me to live in the light.

What sets Cody apart is not just his ability to teach these concepts, but the fact that he lives them out daily. He is a true model and living example of the principles he teaches. His kindness, encouragement, and unwavering support have made a lasting impact on me.

Thanks to Cody’s coaching, I have seen remarkable improvements in my physical health, work relationships, my relationship with my sister, and my marriage. It’s astonishing how many of our thoughts are rooted in lies, and Cody has given me the tools to recognize and overcome them.

Thank you, Cody, for changing my life and the way I think forever. I feel more empowered than ever!”

-George Binoka

Shortly before my Mom died in 2009, the last thing she gave me was this dove plaque quoting a scripture verse from Matthew 5:9.

I was 22 years old at the time and didn’t like the gift. It wasn’t my style, and it was one extra material item I didn’t want.

A week after she had gifted it to me, I had a garage sale and put a $0.25 sticker on it.

To my surprise, my Mom came home during my garage sale and saw the plaque with the $0.25 sticker on it.

She quickly moved towards it, picked it up, and held it out to me. She earnestly said, “No, no, you need to keep this, please, I really want you to have it.”

I felt bad she caught me trying to sell it especially for so cheap. I promised her I would keep it because I could tell it was important to her.

The outline for the dove used in Vulnerability Coach’s logo is based on the dove in the plaque.